The apt and adequate age of the girl for
marriage is 18 year in India
according to legislation. When a girl enters into this age, she is considered
able for marriage and family members settle her marriage and get free from
their responsibility. However, a few girls know the importance of sex for happy
married life after marriage. They do not get right and adequate sex knowledge
because of ignorance and illiteracy existed in the society. Sometimes, a girl ends
her sexual life because of this ignorance.
In this modern era, as girls are becoming
literate as they are getting all the types of knowledge including sex
knowledge. Today, 50-55% girls consider that sex knowledge is very essential
for happy married life. Both girls and boys have become aware how much the sex
knowledge essential for a happy married life is. Woman has equal right as the
man has on the orgasm in sexual intercourse.
Problems originated because of ignorance about sex:
Husband
and wife have to face many problems at the first night after marriage because
of the lack of sex knowledge. Some sexologists consider that when a couple involve
in sexual intercourse at first night after marriage, the woman does not get
orgasm or she pays no attention towards it. No feeling about sex originates in
the heart of woman because of the lack of sex knowledge and consequently she does
not get orgasm, pleasure and satisfaction that should have been gotten in sexual
relation.
No knowledge about sex is the cause of this
dissatisfaction in coition. It is not so that there is lack of sexual desires
in women. They have sexual desire but most of girls do not understand the
importance of sex in married life and the cause of this thing is only ignorance
about sex. Girls, who pay no attention on the sexual relations, do not know how
much important the sexual relations after marriage for happy married life are.
Women, who do not cooperate to her husband during coition in the
lack of sex knowledge, not only deprive her husband from orgasm but also she herself
remains far from sexual pleasure and delight. Sex is as much important in
married life as the sugar has in tea according to sexologists. There is no
taste in tea without sugar and if there is excessive sugar in tea, it becomes
tasteless. Similarly, there is no importance of married life without sex. Life
becomes vain and passive if there is no harmony in sexual relations between
husband and wife. Sexologist Vatsayayana says that if sex is less than need in
life, it seems dissatisfaction and if there is too much sex, it becomes the
cause of several diseases.
Women become the victim of several physical and mental diseases if
they do not get satisfy through sexual relations. Women do not make her sexual
life thrilling and happy willingly in the lack of sex knowledge. About these problems pertaining to sex,
sexologists say that the cause of dissatisfaction in sexual relation is not
only the man but the woman also. Lack of sexual desires and taking time to get
aroused for sexual relation are because of women’s mentality according to
sexologists. According to them, both man and woman do not get satisfaction
until a woman cooperate her partner properly.
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