Thursday 17 May 2012

Sex knowledge is essential for married and conjugal life


The apt and adequate age of the girl for marriage is 18 year in India according to legislation. When a girl enters into this age, she is considered able for marriage and family members settle her marriage and get free from their responsibility. However, a few girls know the importance of sex for happy married life after marriage. They do not get right and adequate sex knowledge because of ignorance and illiteracy existed in the society. Sometimes, a girl ends her sexual life because of this ignorance.

In this modern era, as girls are becoming literate as they are getting all the types of knowledge including sex knowledge. Today, 50-55% girls consider that sex knowledge is very essential for happy married life. Both girls and boys have become aware how much the sex knowledge essential for a happy married life is. Woman has equal right as the man has on the orgasm in sexual intercourse.   

Problems originated because of ignorance about sex:
            Husband and wife have to face many problems at the first night after marriage because of the lack of sex knowledge. Some sexologists consider that when a couple involve in sexual intercourse at first night after marriage, the woman does not get orgasm or she pays no attention towards it. No feeling about sex originates in the heart of woman because of the lack of sex knowledge and consequently she does not get orgasm, pleasure and satisfaction that should have been gotten in sexual relation.

No knowledge about sex is the cause of this dissatisfaction in coition. It is not so that there is lack of sexual desires in women. They have sexual desire but most of girls do not understand the importance of sex in married life and the cause of this thing is only ignorance about sex. Girls, who pay no attention on the sexual relations, do not know how much important the sexual relations after marriage for happy married life are.

Women, who do not cooperate to her husband during coition in the lack of sex knowledge, not only deprive her husband from orgasm but also she herself remains far from sexual pleasure and delight. Sex is as much important in married life as the sugar has in tea according to sexologists. There is no taste in tea without sugar and if there is excessive sugar in tea, it becomes tasteless. Similarly, there is no importance of married life without sex. Life becomes vain and passive if there is no harmony in sexual relations between husband and wife. Sexologist Vatsayayana says that if sex is less than need in life, it seems dissatisfaction and if there is too much sex, it becomes the cause of several diseases.   

Women become the victim of several physical and mental diseases if they do not get satisfy through sexual relations. Women do not make her sexual life thrilling and happy willingly in the lack of sex knowledge.  About these problems pertaining to sex, sexologists say that the cause of dissatisfaction in sexual relation is not only the man but the woman also. Lack of sexual desires and taking time to get aroused for sexual relation are because of women’s mentality according to sexologists. According to them, both man and woman do not get satisfaction until a woman cooperate her partner properly.






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