सेक्स ज्ञान की आवश्यकता (Necessity of sex knowledge)

Today, when man has cross the boundary of moon and fashion is on its high level, people are in the darkness of ignorance relating to sex. Here it means to say that they have no knowledge about sex. It is a misfortune for all the countries where the word ‘sex is not seen with respect and reverence. Inhabitants of these countries feel ashamed while talking about sex and the cause of this thing is the lack of sex knowledge. In great economic country like India where people want to be on the first position in the fields of technology and money, people have the lack of sex knowledge. There is no rule for sex knowledge in education so that people may get adequate knowledge about sex. Misconceptions about sex take birth in the lack of sex awareness, which become the cause of several problems in future. Not only so, mental and physical diseases can take them in their grasp because of incomplete sex knowledge.  


All the sexologists in the world accept that sex knowledge should be learnt to all the boys and girls necessarily. If they get complete sex knowledge in the beginning of puberty, they will never face problems in their married life and their married life will not destroy because of incomplete sex knowledge. We can say undoubtedly that they will make their married life colorful and pleasurable if they have complete sex awareness. Besides it, they will help in family planning too. If the girls are aware about sex knowledge, not only they will give birth to healthy children but also they themselves will remain healthy mentally and physically. Therefore, sexologists say that sex knowledge must be given to all the boys and girls before marriage. If they have sex knowledge, they will not become the prey of sexual and mental diseases and will pass a happy married life.


Acharya vatsayanana says that sex knowledge must be given to all the boys and girls during adolescence. All the boys and girls should be aware about sex knowledge. Knowledge relating to make-up must be given to a girl at her mother’s home. Sex knowledge should be given to a girl through friends, sister in law and married sister. The girl herself should pay attention on this topic to end the darkness of sex ignorance.


Nowadays, health of adolescent person has been disturbing day by day and the cause of this problem is the lack of adequate sex knowledge. Not only married man and woman are becoming the prey of disturbed health but also young unmarried adolescents. The cause of this problem is the ignorance relating to sex. When adolescent person (girl and boy) make sexual relation, they involve in sex similar to animals and do not get orgasm of which they should gain. Sex knowledge is very essential for happy married life. Sex knowledge is the base of happy and healthy life of a family. Married couples, who have no adequate and apt sex knowledge, do not get the real joy and pleasure that is gained through sexual intercourse. Thus, they become the victim of frustration and imprecate their relatives.


Sex knowledge cannot be given to boys and girls because it is considered vulgar. Parents do not want to give sex knowledge because of shame and a boundary line. If a teenager wants to know something about sex from her\his parents, they do not provide this knowledge to their children and get free from them by ignoring teenager’s questions. This is the cause of incomplete sex knowledge in youths. They get incomplete knowledge about sex and consider it true and the result of this thing never proves good. No body can object from this fact that no parents have the courage to provide sex knowledge to their children and the cause of this thing is our family atmosphere and our sacraments. Therefore, sex education must be given necessarily in a country so that young girls and boys may not destroy their married life because of incomplete sex knowledge.  


According to sexologist, it will be very beneficial for young girls and boys if they get sex knowledge from their parents since childhood. This knowledge can be the source of success in their life. Women, conversant of sex knowledge, can become the good and proficient trainer and teacher of their children. A mother can give the knowledge relating to pregnancy, delivery and nurturing of children properly. No other can do this job this way as a mother can do.  


The condition of India is quite different from other countries if we compare India to other countries in the reference of sex knowledge. Here people neither consider sex good thing nor bad thing. They neither have sex knowledge nor do want to give sex knowledge to their children. Often, they fear in giving them sex knowledge and the cause of this thing is their tradition and culture. There are several countries in the world where sex knowledge is given like other subjects to children. In the condition of Japan is a quite different besides other countries in the matter of sex.


In Japan, sex education is given to children since childhood. Parents and teachers do this job. In this country, salacious pictures are sold freely on the roads and a many photos sold there give the knowledge about sex. Open sex knowledge is the cause of this thing that inhabitants of west prefer to watch match than an adult movie. Western people train sex education to their children and present sex albums them on the ceremony of marriage. They teach them about sex through photos and pictures too.


Youngsters either boys or girls do not become the prey of sexual problems if they have open sex knowledge. Knowledge of sex sounds good on the minds of youngsters. They pass their life happily and easily. This is the reason that sex knowledge should be given to children and teenagers necessarily. By doing so, not only they will avoid from astray but also they will pass happy and pleasant married life.